Once you open to love, you lose your whole world. Its over. Love leaves nothing. Its totally greedy. Our pain is denying it. A boundary is an act of selfishness. There is nothing you wouldn’t give to anyone if you weren’t afraid. And you can’t do that ahead of your time. You don’t have to give anything for now, just investigate your thinking. When you meet your thoughts with understanding, you discover that there’s nothing to lose. So eventually there’s no attempt at protection. Then giving everything becomes a privilege.