OMG that’s it!
That was my reaction to Choose Her Everyday (or Leave Her). I have tried to understand what is essential to me as I re-enter the world of relationship. Is it love? No, I am loved in other relationships. Is it being valued? No, even in unhealthy relationships I was valued. It is being chosen. The end of every significant relationship I have had came about because he, me, we did not choose each other.
And because I believe in consciousness originating with me, I have been playing with the question:
What happens when I choose me?
When I choose me, I see myself in my full beautiful radiance.
When I choose me, I take care of my own needs.
When I choose me, I accept me right here and right now.
When I choose me, I can enjoy every person in my life because they reflect that choice vibrationally to me.
When I choose me, I am not scared of the choices of others.
When I choose me, how I feel about anything is OK.
When I choose me, I choose my freedom, my bliss, my full expression of self.
So I do. And so it is.